29 Ways to Have Fun Daily Even When You’re Busy

 Do you ever feel like every day is a rewind of the day before? Well, that’s because as we grow up, many of us lose touch with our innate playfulness and get the idea that fun is not an essential part of life.We tie ourselves to a daily schedule that never changes which suck out all the fun in our life. But with little effort, we can take time out from our daily routines to have fun in life, no matter how busy we are.Having fun is crucial for a happy life because when we have fun, our body releases dopamine that makes us feel cheerful and positive so we can cope with uncomfortable, hopeless, and stressful feelings we encounter in life.[1]If your wondering how to have more fun in life, we have enlisted some tips in this article that you can use to have fun daily.

29 Ways to Have Fun Daily in Your Busy Routine

1. Make Decluttering Fun

The more distractions cluttering your life, the harder it will be to add fun to your routine. Clear your desk of clutter and eliminate unnecessary tasks that serve no purpose. According to research, when our space is cluttered, our brain tends to respond to visual disorganization negatively. It’s drained of cognitive resources and decreases our ability to focus.[2]

Turn on some music and make this task into a fun activity!

2. Laugh to Your Heart’s Content

If we wake up in a funk, it’s easy to find ourselves in a bummer of a mood that is hard to shake off. Start your day by reading funny comics in your newspaper or watching a quick video on YouTube that puts a smile on your face.

3. Change Your Morning Routine

Add a nice splash of variety to your life by switching up your morning routine. Do you usually eat breakfast at the table? Take your breakfast to the porch and listen to the birds singing. Do you typically start your day by working out at the gym? Take your training outdoors by running sprints on a nature trail or track.

4. Dance Like No One’s Watching

Movement is a wonderful activity that you can enjoy any time for $0. Crank up your favorite 80’s jam and dance in your living room. You might feel silly, but I dare you to try this and tell me it wasn’t fun.

5. Sing in the Shower

Belt out a song from your favorite Broadway musical during your morning shower if you want to feel better instantly.

6. Go People Watching

I often wonder why people are so interested in television because I find real life much more fascinating. Pack up your lunch and take it to a bench downtown. Watch the bustling city life unfold, and be happy that you are not alone.Being out in nature helps you ground yourself and feel a sense of gratitude.

7. Strike Up a Conversation

Talking to strangers might be intimidating, but it is so very fulfilling. Strike up a chat with the woman serving you coffee, the family in front of you at the grocery store, or a new co-worker who seems a little shy.

8. Do Something Silly

Go to the park and happily skip like no one’s watching. Lay down flat on your back in a crowded mall, wait for someone to come to see if anything is the matter, and explain, “I’m okay; I just felt like resting for a moment.” As silly as this might sound, it is purposeful because it will help you build confidence (plus, the look on their face will be priceless!). 

9. Listen to Nature Sounds

Go outside and listen to the crickets chirping, birds singing and wind blowing. Focus hard and be amazed by the beautiful nature sounds you’ve been too busy to notice.According to research, people who spend at least two hours a week in nature have better health and well-being than those who don’t.[3]

10. Join a Club

Are you a new mom, a pet lover, a gaming enthusiast, or an artist? If so, I can almost guarantee there is a club of people like you who would be so happy to have you in their life. There’s importance in finding community even in adulthood.

11. Reconnect with an Old Friend

Losing touch with even the best friends is easy when life gets busy. Scan through your contacts until you see a name that makes you think, “I wonder what happened to them?” Call them to reconnect and plan for next weekend if they are local.

12. Walk It Off

Instead of driving straight home from work, stop at a local park for a quick walk to burn calories, clear your thoughts, catch some rays, and maybe even see cute ducks.

13. Challenge Yourself

What do you want to be remembered for? Answer that question and challenge yourself to make it happen.

14. Strike a Pose

It is uber important to love your body as it is. To encourage a healthy dose of self-love at the top of your day, go ahead and strike a pose in front of the mirror. Flex your muscles, pose, smile, and be happy in the wonderful vessel that is you.

15. Become an Expert

Choose a topic that fascinates you and read one article about that very thing daily. If repeated over weeks and months, you’ll be so well-versed in this topic that you could start a Facebook page or blog to educate the masses. You will also have a fresh batch of conversation starters for parties and social outings.

16. Make a Difference

Animal shelters, children’s museums, and soup kitchens always need volunteers. Choose an activity that connects with you and fill your time by making the world a better place.

17. Learn a Joke

The workplace can become a place of monotony, so learn a new joke if you want to supply your co-workers with a much-needed laugh during the daily grind. Rehearse your routine on the phone with a close friend if you want to perfect your timing and delivery before aiming for the funny bone in a public setting.

18. Treat Yourself

To take care of others, you must first take care of yourself. When was the last time you treated yourself to a glorious spa or relaxing massage?

19. Drive Away with No Destination in Mind

Have some time to kill? Get in the car and start driving. Explore the back roads that you’ve never ventured to in all the years you’ve been in your city. Go to a neighboring city you haven’t visited and stop at a random restaurant without researching anything about it.

20. Take a Class

Feeling active? Take up yoga or spin class. Feeling artsy? Learn a new craft like stitching, pottery, or painting. If you’d like to increase your confidence and public speaking ability, join an acting class or audition for a community theater production. If you want to learn how to protect yourself, find self-defense or martial arts class.

21. Make a Collage

Search through the photos saved to your computer or Facebook account and make a collage with a specific theme in mind. Vision boards are fun and easy to make and can help you feel inspired.

22. Journal

I keep a journal to this day because expressing my thoughts in words helps me cherish my positive memories and deal with my negative ones.Emma Watson also keeps her thoughts in a diary. She once said, “I don’t know what it is. I’ve always kept and collected things, and I’ve always been interested in the idea of diaries.”

23. Excite Your Palate

Do you eat the same stuff all the time? If so, your poor taste buds are probably bored to tears. Do you usually eat apples and bananas? Swap those out with something new and exciting, like mangos, pears, peaches, or plums. Do you usually have plain scrambled eggs in the morning? Upgrade to an omelet that includes mozzarella cheese, hot sauce, and a veggie of your choice (diced tomatoes, chopped onions, and sliced spinach work well if you’re looking for suggestions). 

24. Change Your Look

How long has your hair been in its current state? Tell your stylist you are ready for change and want to look like a new person. Ask them to help you dig through one of those big books of hairstyles in the waiting room and suggest styles that would work well with your facial features.

25. Pretend to Be a Tourist

Ask yourself, “If I had a close friend coming into town to visit me and I had 24 hours to make sure they had a heck of a time, where would I take them?” Make a plan to answer that question, and then do all those things for yourself.

26. Explore Your Memory Bank

Take a moment to relax and think about past memories that brought you great joy. Are there any old stomping grounds where you had tons of fun that you haven’t visited in a long time? If so, go visit those places. When you do, I bet you’ll be flooded with more positive memories you forgot about.

27. Embrace Your Curiosity

A curious mind rarely experiences boredom. Aim to be fascinated by everything that surrounds you. If you can find beauty in the ordinary, you’ll never be bored again.

28. Shake Up Your Surroundings

It’s easy to become stagnate if our surroundings never change. Try shaking up the layout of your living room to make it more fun and interesting. You could do something as simple as swapping the couch with the recliner, moving your kitchen table to a new angle, or adding some new decorations to your living room.

29. Adopt a Pet

Do you live alone and feel lonely? Adopt a dog from your local shelter if you’d like to have a new companion who will greet you with a burst of excitement every time you walk in the door. If a dog requires more attention than you can muster, a cat might be a better option since felines are as independent as they come.

Time is a precious thing that, once lost, cannot return. Hence, rather than living in the same boring routine, take out time for yourself and make your day fun and exciting by doing something different. So what are you waiting for? Go have fun right now!

Daniel Wallen

Anyone Can Be Romantic With These 29 Tips

 Romance: a feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love. Doesn’t that sound wonderful? Sadly, most of us have a tendency to get too comfortable and complacent in our relationships, turning what used to be fresh and exciting into a VCR rewind that becomes boring and monotonous.A person can only do the same thing so many times before they get bored, so going on the same dates over and over again probably isn’t the best way to keep your love life exciting or mysterious. The good news? Anyone can be romantic. Apply these 29 tips if you’d like to make your partner say, “WOW!”

1. Is your partner sick at work?
Surprise them at work with hot cocoa or tea. If they’ve got a terrible case of the flu, you could even bring them a thermos containing Theraflu! One of my past girlfriends did this for me and I thought it was one of the sweetest things she ever did for me. Don’t underestimate the power of small, thoughtful surprises!
2. Make a mix tape/CD.
It’s old-school, but it still works (and your partner will think about you every time they listen to it!).
3. Start every day with a hug and kiss.
This will release feel-good hormones in your body that will make you and your love feel super happy!
4. Write a love note.
Yes, you could send a text saying, “I love you,” but that’s too obvious. Given that most of us communicate electronically all day every day, taking the time to actually write a letter by hand will show your partner how thoughtful and romantic you are.
5. Write a love poem.
If a note is just too easy, step up your game by upgrading to a love poem! It doesn’t have to be a Shakespearean sonnet: it’s the thought that counts! If you’re a comedian, you could even make it comedic, because few things are more sexy than funny people.
6. Go on a picnic.
Prepare a lunch or grab some take-out and enjoy a scenic lunch together. Bonus points if you plan it at a time the park will be quiet so you can enjoy some much-needed peace and silence together.
7. Never stop complimenting your partner.
Never stop complimenting your partner on your favorite things about their body, and if they’re looking super suave and sexy, make sure you tell them all about it.
8. Shoulder rub? Yes, please!
Who doesn’t love a good shoulder rub? Give your partner a nice massage if they look tense after work. If you’re lucky, they might return the favor. If you’re really lucky, it could lead to more fun activities!
9. Say, “I love you.”
It goes without saying, but in the hustle and bustle of the stressful life a lot of us lead, it’s awfully easy to forget the power of those three simple words.
10. Do you remember that one time…?
As the months and years go on, it can become easy to forget why we fell so hard for a person in the first place. Talk about that lovely day you met each other, laugh about that terribly embarrassing thing you said on your first date, and remind each other of your relationship’s Greatest Hits!
11. Surprise your honey with coffee or breakfast in bed.
This goes for you too, guys. Bring your partner a cup of coffee to help them start the morning energized with a quick caffeine hit (they will thank you for it!). If you’d really like to make them feel special, surprise them with a tray of their favorite breakfast foods. Two scrambled eggs, chopped berries, and a bit of yogurt would definitely do the trick.
12. Invest in a babysitter!
If you’ve got kids, I know life can get busy, but it’s in your best interest to find a way to have some alone time with the special person in your life. Can’t afford to hire a sitter? Ask a parent or trusted friend to watch your Mini-Me in exchange for a thoughtful favor tailored to their needs. For example, if you have a friend who hates cleaning, offer to come over and get things organized in exchange for a night of sitting. Sounds fair to me!
13. Snuggle.
Just do it, trust me.
14. Be mindful of your partner’s interests.
Fellas: I know you might not be that into romantic movies, but if your partner really wants to go see one, it will mean the world to her. It’s just two hours and you will survive, I promise!
Ladies: Your man and his love of wrestling, Nascar, or whatever the case may be? Same goes for you!
15. Go to a movie (but don’t actually watch it).
Go to a movie together and make-out like love-struck high school teenagers. I wouldn’t advise this if you’re going to see Schindler’s List, but otherwise it’ll be tons of fun!
16. “How was your day?”
Ask that simple question when your partner gets home from work to show them how much you care.
17. Focus!
Put down the phone, turn off the TV, make eye contact, and say, “What would you like to talk about?” Just because you’re hearing your partner’s words doesn’t mean you’re comprehending them. Taking a brief moment to do this will make them feel loved and important.
18. Blast from the past.
If you’ve been together for a long time, think about some of the special places you went to in the early days of your relationship and revisit them in the present. I wager you’ll both be flooded by long-forgotten memories when you get there.
19. Why so serious?
Have tickle fights, go to a comedy club, make-out in a photo booth. Life doesn’t have to be so serious all the time, and laughter will help you grow closer to the person you love.

20. Before you go to work…
Tell your partner that you can’t wait to see them when you get back and give them a quick kiss.
21. Look at the stars.
Grab a blanket, a bottle of wine, and the hand of your dearest. Lay under the stars, relax, look at the constellations, have a drink, and talk about life.
22. Take up a hobby.
Dance class? Crafting? Gardening? Acting? A new language? Pick your pleasure. Figure out a hobby both you and your partner would enjoy and pursue it together to strengthen your relationship.
23. Ride a ferris wheel.
And don’t forget to get some cotton candy when you’re done!
24. Dress up.
Remember how when you were first dating and you spent hours agonizing over what you should wear? I’m not saying you have to take it to that extent, but some people do tend to let their style go downhill if they get too comfortable in a relationship. Turn the tables by dressing up as if it is your very first date together and you want to be certain you WOW them as much as possible.
25. Schedule a “play” date.
Have kids? It might be tough the find the time for intimacy, so plan to get a sitter one-day-per-week so you can have some alone time with your partner. Go out on a date and then come home, where the real fun begins. I know scheduling might not sound sexy in theory but it is in practice, and believe me, there’s nothing like a little anticipation to spice up your love life.
26. Have a friendly competition.
Bowling, putt-putt, darts, pool, or even the Nintendo Wii all apply. Make a bet with your partner: the loser gives a full body massage to the winner.
27. Surprise your love with a thoughtful gift.
I’m not talking about the obvious occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine’s, and so on — and I’m not suggesting you need to empty your bank account either. But surprise your partner with a little gift that will be meaningful for them when they least expect it if you want to brighten their day!
28. Hold hands and go on a stroll.
Enjoy each other’s presence in silence and be happy that you have such a special person in your life.
29. Be creative.
The other 28 tips should give you some inspiration that will help you be more romantic, but no one knows your partner better than you do. What makes him tick? What does she adore? How can you make their day and show them how much you care? Tell me in the comments (but more importantly, show them today!).

Daniel Wallen

SEXTING ETIQUETTE The dos and Don’ts

 Sexting is nothing new. Its very existence goes back to the Paleolithic period, which left behind erotic cave paintings all around the world. Technically there are no rules in the sexting game so it can make it very intriguing for people to engage in when they’re in the mood or want attention from their significant other.While, yes, there are no set “rules,” we thought it would be helpful to set some guidelines for the thrilling behavior (especially for newbies). Ultimately, it comes down to what you and the person you’re sexting feel comfortable with. This list should be used as a loose playbook to ensure things don’t get out of hand or as inspiration to kick off your first sexting relationship (if that’s what you’re looking for, of course). Read on for our sexting etiquette.

Do:

Develop trust with the person first 

When sexting, trust is vital between the two of you …

Ask for consent to send any risqué photos 

Before sending any photos, make sure they are OK with receiving them.

Keep it short and sweet 

Don’t text your significant other a long, loving paragraph while sexting. There’s a time and a place for everything. Sexting usually happens pretty quickly, so keep it short and sweet.

Talk about your desires and wildest fantasies

Get to know each other on a whole new level.

Get creative and even use props or wear lingerie

Don’t be embarrassed, either; they love this stuff.

Ask your partner what they like

A closed mouth doesn’t get fed. Enough said.

Contribute equally 

Remember, it takes two to tango.

Start slow until you and your partner/sexter get in a groove with each other

Slow and steady wins the race. Or in this case, will hopefully win you an orgasm.

Use emojis

If you can’t think of what to say, express yourself with emojis.

Always keep it playful—sexting should be fun

A light-hearted conversation is one that people always go back to.

Double-check who you’re sending it to

Let’s not text “dad” instead of “daddy.”

Don't:

Go beyond your comfort zone

As thrilling of an experience as it can be, don’t push your personal boundaries.

Ghost someone after you have been sexting (unless it’s warranted!)

Disappearing after you have a steamy text interaction is unfair to the other person involved.

Sext when you are around people or in public

You never know who’s looking over your shoulder.

Show your face in pictures 

It’s ultimately your call, but it’s always better to be safe than sorry. 

Save sexting messages

Don’t screenshot sext messages or save pictures you received to your camera roll. Enjoy and live in the moment.

Demand instead of ask

Don’t forget your manners!

Forget to hide your private pictures on your phone

If you want to save the photos you sext, take advantage of the hidden photos feature on your phone. 

Go overboard with the sex talk

You wouldn’t want it to seem forced or pornographic (unless they’re into that). Plus, remember it’s all in writing so don’t send something you may regret.

Poosh








This Is Exactly How Long You Should Wait to Text After a First Date

 Relationship experts have answered the age-old question of when you should reach out.

For many people, there is nothing more nerve-wracking than a first date. But even if the date goes well, the dreaded questions that come up after the date may be even worse. Did you talk too much? Did they laugh at your jokes? And the inevitable: How long should you wait to text them? You may be worried that you're being held down by the arbitrary "three-day rule," but fortunately, it may turn out you're doing more worrying than necessary. According to experts, the best rule of thumb is that you should text someone within 24 hours after a first date.

Send a basic "thank you" text within the next 24 hours.

"When it comes to texting after a first date, you should text no later than the next day to say you had a great time, or to thank them for their time," says Susan Trombetti, a matchmaker and CEO of Exclusive Matchmaking. "Most people will text within a few hours of arriving home and thank their date."

Andrea McGinty, a digital dating coach and founder of 33 Thousand Dates, says that "texting a few hours after the date shows you appreciate the person's time, and you enjoy their company." And the research backs this up: According to McGinty, out of 752 single men surveyed by 33 Thousand Dates, 84 percent said they like hearing from a woman the same day as the first date.

But you can wait a few days to ask for a second date.

According to Trombetti, the 24-hour timeline is just when it comes to sending "the most basic thank you text." If you're looking to text about a second date or just to flirt, you can wait as many as three to five days after your first date. 

And you can make exceptions for extraordinary cases.

McGinty says that 95 percent of the time, texting a few hours after a first date is the most appropriate course of action. However, there could be some instances where you may want to wait."The only circumstance where you wouldn't want to text soon after would be if they tell you something personal is happening later that day, and even then, you can incorporate this into your message," she says.

If the other person texts you first, you should reply within the same day.

You might not always be the first one to text after a first date. And while this may seem like it takes the pressure off of you, your response time is also important if you are interested in pursuing things further with this person."Not responding to texts is the quickest way to sink a new relationship before it even starts," Trombetti says. "If someone texts you, answering is a must during the same day you received the text. If you don't, your date will think you aren't interested in them."

But avoid any late-night texts.

Both Trombetti and McGinty say you should leave the late-night texting out of the picture, especially if you've only gone on a first date with this person. McGinty says that if it's after 11 p.m., you're best waiting until the morning as a text this late at night could "signal you're getting too cozy with your glass of wine." And if you are drinking, you especially want to wait, as you don't want to scare your date away with a sloppy text.


Kali Coleman








The One Pick-Up Line That Works Every Time, Research Shows

 You only have one chance to make a great first impression, so be sure to use this kind of pick-up line.

Approaching someone you're interested in–whether virtually or in person—takes courage, confidence, and yes, the right pick-up line. But a specific line that's good for a twenty-something in college is likely not effective for a forty-something who's getting back out there after a divorce. Plus, the dubious "advice" of pick-up artists who work their magic in bars is unlikely to lead to success when you're opening a conversation with someone on a dating app. But the truth is, there is a kind of pick-up line that is guaranteed to work. What's the trick? It has to be a pick-up line that intrigues and initiates.On her website, behavioral expert Vanessa Van Edwards, the best-selling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding With People, points out that pick-up lines are not in and of themselves a bad thing; it's just that people tend to use ones "that are awkward, confusing, and/or just flat-out inappropriate." From her research, the pick-up lines that work are those that both "intrigue someone enough that they begin to reciprocate your interest" and "initiate a conversation." She adds that "the mistake people make with pick-up lines and other ways of approaching people is that they forget to consider what the other person would be comfortable with."This means thinking about the other person, rather than yourself, and then it's a case of looking for what Van Edwards calls "comfortable commonalities"—questions that relate to the environment that you find yourselves in together. So, if you're at your friend Amy's party, ask, "How do you know Amy?" Or if you're at a bar and they're ordering something unusual, ask them, "What's that drink you're having?"A 2020 study out of Saint Mary's University and Bucknell University found that "the initial communication that occurs between prospective romantic partners is critical in determining whether an interaction and subsequent relationship will continue or not." To find out what kind of initial communication works, the researchers looked at three different types of pick-up lines: innocuous lines that "hide the intention of the speaker and act more as conversation starters" ("Can you recommend a good drink?"); direct lines that clearly indicate you're interested ("Can I have your number?"); and flippant lines that are silly icebreakers ("Can I get a picture of you so I can show Santa what I want for Christmas?").Their findings, which were published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences, show that the kind of pick-up line you should use depends on who you're trying to approach: Women are most receptive to innocuous lines, like the ones Van Edwards highlighted, while men respond best to direct lines. Flippant lines are always your worst bet. In terms of perception, "flippant line users as the least likable and responsible, as well as being the most selfish, domineering, and promiscuous," the researchers concluded.Ultimately, Van Edwards stresses, people talk more freely when they feel truly comfortable, so have a real interest in their response, ask follow-up questions, be genuine, and be aware of how your words or actions might come across. And don't be afraid of some pick-up lines that feel a little old-fashioned. "We know, 'Do you come here often?' is overused," Van Edwards writes. "But the sentiment is great."

John Quinn








Pleasure and Protection: Why Sex Ed Programs Should Teach About Both

 Researchers have found that including pleasure as a part of sex education can make people more likely to engage in safer sex practices.

    The organization, The Pleasure Project, advocates for “putting the sexy into safer sex.”

    Experts say parents also play a vital role in teaching young people sex positivity.

    An open acknowledgement that sex feels good allows young people to learn how to experience sex in a safer and pleasurable way.


Sexual education often focuses on all the things that can go wrong in sex, like unplanned pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections (STIs).However, researchers say that sex ed may be more effective when sexual pleasure is also a part of these conversations.According to the authors of a new studyTrusted Source in the journal PLOS One, when educators acknowledge that enjoyment is often a primary objective of sex, it helps improve people’s knowledge and attitudes about sex.Their research also indicates that it leads to safer sex practices and improves compliance with condom use.

Sexual pleasure education linked to safer sex

The research team decided to look at the issue of pleasure in sex education because they felt that it was largely absent from most programs as well as being understudied.To carry out their research, they performed a meta-analysis of the scientific literature between 2005 and 2020.The majority of the studies included in their analysis were from the United States. However, studies from countries around the globe, including Brazil, Spain, South Africa, the UK, Nigeria, Mexico, and Singapore were also included.When they examined the data from these studies, they found that incorporating pleasure into sexual health and reproduction programs can have positive effects on people’s attitudes toward sex.It can also encourage safer sexual behaviors, including condom use, when educators acknowledge that sex can and should feel good.The authors concluded their report by recommending that sexual health programs revisit their approaches if they’re not already including sexual pleasure in their educational efforts, stating that they will have more effective programs when done with a sex-positive approach.

Putting the sexy into safer sex

The study was released just prior to Valentine’s Day by the World Health Organization (WHO) and The Pleasure Project, an advocacy organization described by study author and founder Anne Philpott as “putting the sexy into safer sex.”According to Philpott, historically, sexual health education has focused on what we should avoid or the harm that can come to us if we have sex, an approach that doesn’t work when it comes to changing behavior.There is also stigma and taboo surrounding sexual behaviors and the reasons people engage in them.In addition, there are gender norms that make it taboo for women, LGBTQIA+, or other marginalized groups to be able to express what they might want or to express their sexual identities.“However, this has not served us well overall in that it shames people into not being able to learn the skills and knowledge they need to protect themselves,” said Philpott.“We promote sexual health and agency through an emphasis on ‘good sex’ and by focusing on one of the primary reasons people have sex — the pursuit of pleasure — and by acknowledging diverse desires and means of satisfaction,” she said.

Talking about sex with your kids

While there are formal programs that educate young people about sex, including sex education in schools, parents play an important role as well.Jennifer M. Grossman, PhD, a senior research scientist at the Wellesley Centers for Women who leads its Family, Sexuality, and Communication Research Initiative, said that parents often fear talking with their children about the positive aspects of sex, worrying that they’ll encourage behaviors that may lead to unintended pregnancies or STIs.She noted that the evidence does not support this.“It’s important to talk about sexual pleasure, especially with adolescents and young adults, because these are developmental periods when people form lasting ideas about sex and relationships, which carry over into adulthood,” said Grossman.“Therefore, seeing sex as a negative behavior may get in the way of healthy and positive sexual relationships in adulthood,” she added.She said that when you avoid the positives, it prevents opportunities to talk honestly with your kid about the challenges of using protection, or safe and healthy ways to experience pleasure, like masturbation.

Protection and pleasure can go together

Sara C. Flowers, DrPH, vice president of education and training at Planned Parenthood Federation of America, said “It’s important to know that you don’t have to sacrifice a fun, pleasurable sexual experience in order to practice safer sex.”“Actually, practicing safer sex helps you be more relaxed during sex since you can worry less about STIs or unintended pregnancy,” she said.Flowers noted that rather than taking away from your fun, condoms can actually increase pleasure for both partners. They come in lots of different styles, shapes, and textures.Also, putting on a condom can be a fun part of foreplay, she said.Flowers added that consent is also a big part of having a safer, happier sex life.“Asking for consent doesn’t have to be hard or awkward. In fact, telling someone what you want and asking what they want can be sexy,” she said.“It also makes doing sexy stuff less awkward and less confusing because when there’s clear consent, you know for sure that the person you’re with wants the same thing you do,” she added.


Nancy Schimelpfening








Join this cool side with these playful beauties(23photos)

 "In my opinion, the best thing you can do is find someone who loves you for exactly what you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty, handsome, what have you." — Mac (J.K. Simmons)